What is the right decision?

                   What is the right decision to make?

               Is it I'm right and your wrong or your right and I'm wrong?

   This morning I woke up pondering this question. Do I need to be right or wrong? What difference does it make if I am or I am not? What is the right answer? For years I have thought I had to be right and sometimes I knew I was wrong and still chose to be right. What is it inside me that makes me react this way. Why must I always be right and others wrong? For years I never thought about why it was this way with me. Do I always need to be right? Can I just once take the opposite choice and live with it? Will it hurt me to be wrong? Will I lose hope because of that decision? Is it survival mode or just plain ignorance?There are so many questions as to why I must act this way? 

                                                    

Talking things over

So I prayed about it and and slept on it and woke up with the understanding of it's okay not to try and be right or wrong but to make the choice of peace about the situation and live with the consequence of that choice. It can be no worse than the other choices I have made through out my life which were some really not so good choices like losing a friendship over it or even worse getting sick over it afterwards.The choices we make can either make us sick or keep peace about us. To many times have I seen or even lost potential friendships because of the choices I have made. Sometimes I could gain a friendship and lose another because that individual did not like my choice. What is the right decision to make? No matter what decision I make it has a consequence with it.

There are a lot of decisions in our life that we have to make everyday and  they ultimately show who we have become in our heart. The decisions work on our heart in one way or another. Our heart influences of our decisions we make whether we follow it or not. As I get older I find more peace at just keeping peace than trying to be in the right. It's so much easier to live with and less stress on me and everyone else. I also fine that  what ever decision I make it also influences others in their decision making. And now I realize I have a greater responsibility than just my own of the decisions I make in life. Now knowing that it makes a difference on the decisions and choices I make I think a lot more on what is the best thing for me to do. 

                                                    

Friendship

If I am about helping others and keeping the peace then I will over look my own wants and bow down gracefully for the ultimate good of the situation because there is a bigger consequence than my own wants. And that is making a difference in the world to help change it for the better. This is why I choose to be different so that it will make a difference. I believe it is the right kind of hope to live for in order for that hope to come alive. I believe it is why Jesus came besides to redeem our souls. I believe He shared His beliefs and lived His life in this same manner for a reason. To bring love and unity back together for peace on earth. 

                                                      

Life together

These are just my own thoughts and perspectives from my own experiences in life and it has affected me and others not just around me but those who they come in contact with also. It is a chain reaction that goes on and on. So I choose this day to be in hope of a better future of a life of peace. 

Thank you for being a sounding board for my thoughts and questions. Maybe they ring true with you and this helps you came to a decision yourself. 

If you have questions or comments please write them below. I would love to hear from you. 

Thank you!